{"id":1147,"date":"2019-01-21T15:10:10","date_gmt":"2019-01-21T15:10:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/?p=1147"},"modified":"2020-07-03T01:24:42","modified_gmt":"2020-07-03T00:24:42","slug":"stigmata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/2019\/01\/21\/stigmata\/","title":{"rendered":"Stigmata"},"content":{"rendered":"
No, the fear and ambivalence of Hungarian Jewry was not because of 50 years of communism<\/a>.<\/p>\n My parents left in 1948, when I was three. Nor did it start with the Shoah.<\/p>\n Bigotry, oppression and \u00a0pogroms had been ongoing for centuries.<\/p>\n My father converted when he was 19, in 1919, No, the fear and ambivalence of Hungarian Jewry was not because of 50 years of communism.<\/p>\n One lifetime in Hungary will do that for you, Postscript:<\/strong><\/p>\n Many years ago, in the 1970s, when I lived in Princeton and my brother was visiting, we went to a Hungarian bookstore in nearby New Bunswick (NJ) where there has been a Hungarian emigr\u00e9 community since the early 1900s<\/a>). We shook hands with the owner, a Mr. Somodi, who immediately began to address us \u201cper du\u201d (tegez\u00e9s), delighted to hear that Hungarians who had emigrated at a young age so long ago (1949) still spoke Hungarian.<\/p>\n (I remember that in browsing the books that was the first time I came across a book about the Scythian origins of Hungarian\u2026)<\/p>\n Well, we got around to inquiring about Hungarian restaurants in New Brunswick \u201cbecause there are quite a few Hungarians living in Princeton.\u201d<\/p>\n He asked: \u201cReally? Who are these Hungarians?\u201d<\/p>\n
\nI had been baptized in Budapest,
\nand I didn\u2019t learn that I was jewish till I was nine,
\nin Montreal.
\nOther jews of Hungarian origin in Canada did not learn till they were adults
\n\u2014 and some are still in denial to this day.<\/p>\n
\nbecause of numerus clausus<\/i>,
\nchanged his name from Hesslein to “Harnad,”
\nthen my mother<\/a>‘s from (J\u00fcdin) S\u00fcss to “Simoni”.
\n(Nor did it save them from having to go underground with a false identity in 1944.
\nAnd forty members of my family on both sides were exterminated<\/a>.)<\/p>\n
\nor even just its aftermath.<\/p>\n
\n